advice

Your Relationship Is A Garden

Codependence & D/s Dynamics

Sep 18 •

A Farewell To Being Rage Baited

get off my proverbial dick

Sep 17 •

How To Do BDSM Research

this should be taught in schools

Aug 8 •

What Is A Fake Dom?

disembodied torsos behaving badly

Jul 31 •

Baby Soft Skin Regimen

something light and frivolous (like my skin)

Jul 24 •

Turning Your Vanilla Partner Into Your Dom

get in loser, we're recruiting vanillas

Jul 10 •

Finding Your Way Into Age Play

Littles, Middles, and In-Betweens

May 15 •

Doms, Subs, And Money

put your negotiation skills to work

Mar 27 •

Against Habit Tracking Your Kink

doing kink vs being kinky

Feb 28 •

Ask vs. Guess Culture in D/s

which one are you?

Feb 7 •

What I Look For In A Sub (As A Sub)

dating dos and donts from your subby gal pal

Jan 3 •

What We Talk About When We Talk About Cucking

cucking equality math for the masses

Nov 8, 2023 •

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